THE LOST BATTLE- CANCER

ME AND KAT

24 JAN 2013, will be a day that will be permanent etched in my heart. It is my dearest wife's birthday and deathday...................yes, she left us on the day she was born......age 52

Yes we lost the battle with cancer, and my wife was called home to God. The recovey she made during the early stages, was suddenly overtaken by an aggresive attack, and within afew weeks, such an active lady was reduced to a bedridden patient.

My daughter and I miss her dearly. But sometimes I think it is for the best. I cannot bear to see her suffering. My heart hurts so much to see her like that.

Thank God we had very good doctors and nurses, who kept her painless, throught the ordeal.
On the morning of 24 Jan 2013, me, my daughter, her brother and mother were at her side, we bought a small birthday cake, and sang her a final birthday song. After which she breath her last and left us for heaven at 1000hrs singapore time.

Now its comming close to a month, and her memories linger on in my heart and soul. Never aday passessby without me thinking of her and missing her so dearly.

Rest in Peace mummy, will catch up with you when my chores are done................

FIGHTING THE CANCER WAR

Its been six months since my wife was diagnosed with colon cancer. Thank God, family and friends who were always there to give support and a helping hand . Things are looking rosy and the last CT scan done 2 weeks ago, gave us a reason to celebrate. Most of the affected organs have shown the cancer cells has disappeared or too small to be detected.
The only visible cancer is in the liver and this too has shrunk to half its original size. Our doctor was very happy with the recovery and maybe in 3 months with continuing treatment, this too will disappear.
We are very optimistic at this stage and are now back to some form of normalcy in our home.
To all those out there who are facing similar problems, my only advice is trust God, and leave in HOPE.
Stay optimistic and follow your doctors advice. 

FIGHTING CANCER

my wife went in for her first chemo last thursday. i was beside her, watching them infuse the poison, into her. it was really heart breaking for me, to see such a lovely person so down and so sad. her eyes has lost that sparkle, and watching her in that situation, made me want to cry out . but how could i, i had to stay strong for both of us!

now after 4 days, and still on oral chemo at home, she is doing ok  i guess, not allowing it to bring her down any further, she has gone back to her daily chores. makes me a little happy, to see her busy as before, and running our household again....wash your hands!, wash your hands!... so nice  to hear those words again form my loving and dear wife... at least i have her back again....

FIGHTING CANCER

Finally this dreaded disease has caught up with me.... i always thought that it will not reach my doorstep.. but it did finally.

My lovely and dearest wife was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.
24 months thats the death sentence the doctors gave her. i still think i am in a dream, just waiting to wake up, and all this will just go away. but life being such, it always gives that kick and keeps on kicking till you are down.

So finally after accepting the situation, and tons of research, we are fighting back. we don't even know if we will see tomorrow's sunrise, so whats 24 months?...that's what i told my wife.
She will be going for chemo on the 20th oct 2011, but we are also trying some alternative medication. TCM, fruit juice, supper food , and sabah snake grass.

hope fully God willing we can overcome this little spanner that life has thrown into our home. I am trying my best to stay confident and being positive as my wife is. Hopefully we can fight this and live to tell our story to the many suffers out there.